You have two choices in life. You can view life as a glass half full or half empty. Essentially this means you can either be (a) positive and optimistic or (b) negative and gloomy.
Taking the first option of positivity is by far the better option. We are at the end of the day the sum of our thoughts. Just like we are what we eat, we become what we think. So if you take a positive view and outlook, your aspirations and wishes are more likely to materialize.
Just think for a second, taking a very simple example, if you think its possible for you to walk up a set of stairs from the ground floor to upper floor of a house, what is the likely outcome? When there is a need to “go upstairs” you will do it. If you thought the task was not feasible, chances are you will not attempt it and you will “stay downstairs”.
This is exactly the same principle in pretty much any endavour in life. If you take a positive “can do” attitude, you will more likely take the plunge and do the activity in question. So whether you want to become a millionaire, overcome that fear that is holding you back or have successful relations with family or friends, if you take the positive attitude of “I can do it”, chances are you will do it and lead to a positive outcome.
So do yourself a massive favour and take a positive and an optimistic outlook on life and everything you wish to achieve. It will pay you back big time!